There are times when you need confidence right away. Here are 25 to get it right when you need it.
1. Compliments
Watch out for compliments. When someone gives you one, accept it gracefully. The most graceful way to accept a compliment is to say thank you. When someone gives you compliments this means that they value you as a person.
2. Successes
Make a record of your successes. Write them down no matter how simple they seem. It could be the first song you sang or the first million you made you need to document it.
3. Failure
Don’t despair about experiencing that failure. That will actually boost your confidence. You can now confidently say that it will not happen again because you now know the pitfalls and will want to avoid then like the plague.
4. Abilities
Keep a list of what areas you can do best so will be constantly reminded that you are a doer and that you can accomplish things according to your abilities. Make a I’m a good at list and this will boost your self-worth.
5. Talent
Sometimes if you feel insecure just say that you have the talent.
6. See People as Individuals
Often in business we see names of groups.
• Email list.
• JV Partners
• Affiliates
• Prospects
• Customers
Try to know the members of these groups. It will give confidence because you have people to call if you need to.
7. Family Support
You can say that you are blessed to have a spouse and children who will be by your side come hell high water. It’s great to have people in your team who will support you all the way.
8. Constructive Feedback
Listen to the feedback from sincere friends. They will tell you the real score about things. True friends will tell you the real score, they will not sugar-coat. After telling you what’s wrong they will also tell you tell you the solution and how to it that right.
9. Being Conversational
Use simple language when you talk to your friends. Do not to use jargon or technical terms. Using natural and easy to understand language will put other people at ease consequently helping you gain friends and boost your confidence.
10. Think of Who You Love Most
Think of the person you love. Love conquers all. Keep on thinking of that person you love and you will be inspired to do the things you love to do and even better.





1:45 am on April 12th, 2010 1
Great post,
Big fan of the “Law of Attraction” and this was a nice way to summarize them.
Thank’s