Having the opportunity to learn the “law of attraction” can be one of the greatest blessings you can receive in life. Once you discover the real reason for your encounter with reality and that  you discovered that you can actually change that reality into anything you fancy then you are confronted with limitless possibilities.

Try to visualize the fact that you can have all the riches in the world, you will have the ideal relationship you have been dreaming of and you can spend the rest of your life doing the things that you really love.

The problem is people only get to discover the simplest form of the Law of Attraction and continue to make mistakes and in the end giving them the result which is the exact opposite of what they are wishing for.

Before further committing these mistakes, I want us to study what this Law of Attraction is all about. They say that Energy attracts Like Energy.

This means that physical and non-physical things in this Universe are some kind of energy that is capable of vibrating at different frequencies that happen both in a small and huge scale. For the purpose of our analysis, we will base our discussion on the premise that our thoughts create our reality.

Let’s see how many of these mistakes you are guilty of:

1. Believing that if you practice “Positive Thinking” you will be successful in attracting what you want

Positive thinking can be applied in different ways on a certain level of consciousness like affirmations so you can remove those kinds of thoughts on a certain level of subconsciousness.

For example, telling yourself  “I am fit, sexy, and active” when it is the opposite that you see in the mirror and then your subconscious mind is saying something like “That’s not true!!.” This is a very strong statement which can influence your general mood.

In other words, using affirmations can actually result to the opposite of what you are trying to reaffirm or reassure because you are ignoring the pleasant message with an unpleasant one.

2. Being impatient

When people hear and learn about the Law of Attraction, they develop high expectations and start making a wishlist of what they desire. They thought they can simply make a grocery list of the items they want to have, leave them somewhere then start looking for the items after a few days or weeks.

Then you don’t get what you want right that moment. The problem is that you never really had faith that your wish will be granted in the first place. You were more like trying to test if the theory really works than believing that your wish will come true and this is why you become impatient when the Universe did not deliver what you desired.

You might not have realized but your action could already have an element of resistance from the start. You should at least ‘allow’ the vibrations of the Universe to grant your desire and if you do this, then you will no longer be impatient in waiting for the fulfillment of those desires.

3. Anticipating the time and manner by which you attract what you like.

You will be successful in applying the law of attraction if you freely “allow it to” work in your life. The Universe is limitless but our minds are not and when you desire something we always wish that the Universe will put that delivery in a beautiful package. When you limit yourself to just one result you are cutting off tremendous possibilities to come to you.

4. Being emotional

When we become influenced by our emotions we become frustrated. Sometimes what you are trying to attract is very much different from reality and therefore you allow yourself to become frustrated. This happens because of the uncertainty that the Law of Attractions has scientific basis. However, if you have faith you will immediately get want you want and you will not have time to dwell with your emotions because you will realize that what you got what you were really trying to attract in the fist place.

5. Having deeply-rooted limiting beliefs that affect mental and physical activities

In your lifetime, you have nurtured those old beliefs that have helped shaped the person that you are today. They are deeply-rooted and you have been strongly emotionally attached to them. These strong emotions can be manifested many ways. One example is when you have to deal with a huge amount of money but at the back of your mind you say something like “That’s too big an amount, I’m not gonna make that much money.”

Whatever negative thoughts you were entertaining at that time actually prevented what you wanted to happen. You would have paved the way for the Universe to grant your wish if you learned to release the emotions that would have allowed your desires to happen. You try to eliminate the resistance and your wishes will be abundantly given to you.